October-December 2003

by Letha Dawson Scanzoni

Contents

Previous Issues...    

  1. The World Wide Web and You
  2. Resources for Christian Living
  3. Special Topic: Friendship
  4. Current Issues: News of interest to feminists

Introduction 

Three points to keep in mind in using "Web Explorations for Christian Feminists":

1.  When you click on the links below (words underlined in a contrasting color) you'll be taken outside the EEWC site. In most cases, you can come back to the EEWC website by clicking on the back button on the toolbar at the top of the screen. (In some cases, when you click on a link taking you to an external site, a new window opens up and the back button won't take you back to the site you just left. In such cases, try clicking on the X in the upper right corner of the new window to close it. You'll find yourself back at the EEWC site -- which was there the whole time, but underneath the new site's window.)

2.  Since the links take you outside the EEWC website, the Evangelical and Ecumenical Women's Caucus cannot be responsible for their content. The inclusion in this column of any particular external link doesn't necessarily mean EEWC endorses all or any of the content you may find on that site. A listing under "Web Explorations" only means it's a website that I think you'll find of interest.

3.  All of the "Web Explorations for Christian Feminists" columns are archived, so be sure to visit the archives from time to time to check out tips and links in previous columns.


The World Wide Web and You 

Chain letters and spam 
Is there a possible relationship between those annoying chain letters with the long list of names and addresses of everyone to whom it was sent? Check out this article.

Internet4Classrooms: Online practice modules
If you find computers a bit intimidating or just want to know more about the basics (and more), check out this website. It's designed for teachers but helpful to anyone. Tips for both Windows and MacIntosh users.

Jan's Illustrated Computer Literacy Program 101
Another helpful website that takes the mystery out of using computers and the Internet. Windows-based.


Resources for Christian Living 

Religion in America's history 
From the National Humanities Center's TeacherServe®, this site provides excellent resources for studying the role of religion in various periods of U.S. history. Just click on one of the three pictures for online essays on a range of topics, including Native American religion, the American Jewish experience, the rise of Protestant fundamentalism, to mention only a few.

Religion and the Feminist Movement Conference at Harvard -- Now Online  
In the August-September Web Explorations, I mentioned that the Harvard Divinity School was gradually making it possible to experience virtually the November 2002 Religion and the Feminist Movement Conference, since so many had to be turned away because of limited space at the actual gathering. When the August-September Web Explorations was posted, however, only four of the speakers were featured online. Now you can see and hear all 22 speakers via your computer. (Perhaps you remember the EEWC Update reports on the conference, one from an attendee and one from a speaker.)

About the Bible 
An informative list of questions and answers about the Bible and how it came to us. Prepared by the International Bible Society.

Church History Online 
Texts of early Christian documents, church creeds, and related materials. Site includes several positive articles on women's ministry.


Special Topic 

Friendship

Friendship has always been at the top of my list of what really matters in life. In genuine friendship, both persons benefit. As one of my favorite Bible verses expresses it, "As iron sharpens iron, a friend sharpens a friend" (Proverbs 27:17, New Living Translation). With that in mind, I thought we might enjoy looking together at some of the resources on friendship on the World Wide Web.

Study shows women's friendships are important in coping with stress
A recent study indicates that women and men deal with stress differently. Whereas men are more likely to follow a pattern of fight or flight, women are more likely to react to stress with a "tend and befriend" model of behavior. This article is from Monitor on Psychology, a publication of the American Psychological Association.

The basics of friendship 
Here you'll find short articles on such topics as "What is Friendship?" "Building a friendship from casual friends," "Maintenance of friendship is crucial," "Friendships do end," "Best Friends -- How to Grow a friend," and more.

Quotations about friendships 
Friendship is such an important human experience that it has been talked about all through history. Here are some quotations about it from famous people.

Materials on Friendship by Jan Yager 
Jan Yager is a sociologist, consultant, author, and speaker. One of her areas of specialization is friendship, an interest she developed while writing her doctoral dissertation on the topic. She is presently planning another book on friendship and has included her survey questionnaire on her website for anyone who wants to be part of her research. 

The next several links in this "Web Explorations" column will take you to some of Jan Yager's materials.

"The power of friendship
This is a reprint of Chapter 1 from Jan Yager's book Friendshifts: Why friends are so important today. The chapter title, "The Power of Friendship," is self-descriptive. Friendship is indeed powerful! (The word that Yager coined, "friendshifts," refers to changes in friendships over the life course or over changes in circumstances.)

Negative friendships 
This is a description of the types of "friends" and behaviors that can hurt us and that go against all that true friendship should be. It comes from Jan Yager's summary of her book, When Friendship Hurts: How to deal with friends who betray, abandon, or wound you.

Friendships at work 
Yager maintains that causal friends rather than "best friends" are better in the workplace and tells why.

"Coping with endings because of death
In this article from her book Friendshifts, Jan Yager talks about three topics related to death: (1) "Being there" for a friend going through a terminal illness, (2) experiencing the grief of losing a friend through death and knowing you have a right to such grief, and (3) "coming through" for friends when friends lose someone close to them through death and are going through their darkest hour with a great need for the support of friends.

Healing power of friendship 
This article by Abigail Trafford from the Washington Post reminds us of the research-based evidence that friendship is essential for good health.

Another article on the healing power of friendship, this one from the Clarion Health Network, lists specific ways the emotional support of friendship aids in physical and emotional wellbeing. 

"Friends Heal Us," provides still more information about the health benefits of friendship. This article from the Topeka Capital-Journal refers to a major study that shows that not having close friends is actually detrimental to health. 

"Social Support: A buffer against life's ills
This special Mayo Clinic report, prepared for CNN, re-emphasizes the link between social support and health. 


Current Issues  

News items of interest to feminists

"Women will have to save the world
(Source: AlterNet.org, Sept. 15, 2003)

Women overtaking men in university attendance 
Source: BBC, September 16, 2003

Nigerian woman spared death by stoning 
(Source: BBC, September 25, 2003)

How U.S. Abortion rule affects Africa 
(Source; BBC, September 25, 2003)

Women and veils 
(Source: BBC, September 26, 2003)

Cultural defense used in honor killings 
(Source: Guardian Unlimited, September 30, 2003}

Women's right not to live with in-laws in India 
(Source: BBC, October 2, 2003)

Iran's Police women 
Source: BBC, Oct. 4 , 2003

Muslim counterpart to Barbie 
(Source: CNN, Oct. 8, 2003)

Vatican in HIV condom dispute 
Source: BBC, Oct. 9, 2003

Tragedy of a female suicide bomber 
(Source: Guardian Unlimited, October 12, 2003)

"Reality remains dire for women In Afghanistan and Iraq
(Source: Feminist Majority Foundation)

"Childbirth in Afghanistan like Russian roulette
(Source: New Zealand Herald, November 16, 2003)

"The Winter Holidays for Battered Women
This article by Rev. Marie Fortune stresses the importance of recognizing observances of the various faith traditions in meeting the needs of battered women in shelters over the winter holidays. 
(Source: Faith Trust Institute, formerly known as the Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence)

Women and Suicide in China 
(Source: Guardian Unlimited, October 17, 2003)

Men in Skirts: Special museum display of men in skirts throughout history 
(Source: The Lubbock Avalanche-Journal, November 4, 2003)


I hope visiting the various sites listed in this edition of "Web Explorations for Christian Feminists" has touched your mind and heart -- and that your vision will be enlarged to pray and act in any of the areas that have especially moved you. Be sure to visit Web Explorations often, checking over a few different links each time you stop by. (You could spend all day on a single site in some cases! So don't feel frustrated if you can't explore them all in one sitting.) And from time to time, don't forget to click on "previous issues" at the top right corner of each page of Web Explorations. Many of the sites from past editions have regular updates built into them.

That's all for now. See you next time when we gather together again and set out on a new Web Explorations trek.

Your Web Explorations tour guide, 

Letha Dawson Scanzoni
Editor, EEWC Update